Thursday, April 9, 2015

Parenthood



ME: "This was in R's school writing journal."

T-Girl: "Awesome. Very sweet."

ME: "I've yet to see one about his father. Have to brace myself for when that happens in the future."

T-Girl (whose son is two years older): "Here's what it looks like.
Mom vs. Dad ..."



Saturday, April 4, 2015

Another soccer update

Jedi won this a.m. Opponents scored first. R equalized with a PK, and it was 1/1 at half.

W scored our second goal, then R scored two more (hat trick!).

Opponents came back to score two more goals, but we won with a final of 4/3.

Sporting FC match followed ... was nil/nil at half. Sporting won with two goals in the second half. Second one was R's - just before final whistle. He was happy.
2/nil final.

Both teams undefeated so far for Spring. Five matches between two teams over next eight days.

Love to watch my boy play.

Thursday, April 2, 2015

Thieving

I always sked ortho appts on 1st, 3rd, 5th Thursdays, to buy myself time, steal moments.

A single parent thinks this way.

After appt today? Bluebonnets and slushies before heading back to school and work. Grateful.

Sunday, March 29, 2015

Spring soccer: An update

Yes, we had a Sporting (Fire) match at 7:15 last night. It was a great game ... we led with the first goal, then they equalized and it was 1:1 at half.
FC Dallas took the lead 2/1, then we equalized, then they took the lead 3/2, we equalized ... then they again took the lead 4/3, we equalized ... and finally won 5/4. It was great to see the boys apply the pressure to win and not just give up (they could have). Both of my folks were there, and I'm glad my dad got to see a competitive match.
The Sporting team continues to see turnover, with core folks like Greyson leaving, etc., but they have actually looked great lately. I'm curious to see what becomes of this team ... if they really go Select or if it falls apart. I'm staying close to the Warners on this trying to determine direction, etc. Everyone loves Adam (including Ryder), so that's a good thing. But we are short players - no subs last night, one sub today - and I don't believe everyone on the team will show up when it comes time to cough up $$$ for Select (the "shit or get off the pot" moment is coming). I just want to ensure I have a back-up plan and that I'm not blind-sided or left in the dark. I had a good convo with the Warners this eve, and they assured me that I won't be caught off-guard. Going with faith.
Anyway, I digress ... Ryder scored one goal last night and assisted a goal, as well.
We had to be at our match today at 7:30 a.m. for 8 a.m. start. We beat Highland Park Scots 3/nil. The shut-out was nice b/c our opponents looked strong ... either team could have won it, but we just dominated. Ryder scored the third goal of the match. Should be an interesting season for Sporting.
So the eight-game Jedi spring season looks something like: two games in Feb., ZERO in March b/c of rain, and six matches in 11 days in April b/c of make-ups. Is this a season or a tournament? Really.
It's going to be hectic. I'm a little perturbed w/mother nature's havoc on our schedule, but it is what it is.
Both teams are undefeated so far this season, but there's ground to make in a short period of time over the next few weeks.
And there is your play-by-play of Ryder soccer.
Thanks for asking.

Wednesday, March 18, 2015

On transparent yoga ...

I had a good, strong class. I couldn't see anyone else's secrets. I tried.

No one knew that I slept with the 28-year-old, who also practiced in the room today, two-and-a-half years ago.

The fact that I survived that, didn't allow that to scare me away from the studio and my practice ... the fact that I can say hello and make pleasantries w/out having any interest in him or any awkwardness about it? Proof I'll get over this latest, recent fling. Just takes time.

Monday, March 16, 2015

Tessellate

Bite chunks out of me
You're a shark and I'm swimming
My heart still thumps as I bleed
And all your friends come sniffing

Triangles are my favorite shape
Three points where two lines meet
Toe to toe, back to back, let's go, my love; it's very late
'Til morning comes, let's tessellate

Go alone my flower
And keep my whole lovely you
Wild green stones alone my lover
And keep us on my heart

Three guns and one goes off
One's empty, one's not quick enough
One burn, one red, one grin
Search the graves while the camera spins

Chunks of you will sink down to seals
Blubber rich in mourning, they'll nosh you up
Yes, they'll nosh the love away but it's fair to say
You will still haunt me

Triangles are my favorite shape
Three points where two lines meet
Toe to toe, back to back, let's go my love; it's very late
'Til morning comes, let's tessellate

Wednesday, March 4, 2015

Love is in the air ...

So my fourth-grader came home with a "girlfriend" today.
He said, "I asked her and she said ... 'Sure.' There are also rules ...
#1 I can't break up with her until April 4 unless she breaks up with me.
#2 Can't break her heart "
Lol! He's my heart breaker, for sure. Hope he's better at relationships than I am!